The Mackin Artist

How the Mack Got My Mother?

2011-02-08T16:21:00.003-06:00

My father passed away when I was a young age. I have been crying over this for a long while. I just wish I could have spent more time with him before his passing. But this is how the Mack got my mother.

I decided to go back to college and I befriended a guy about the age of my father. Yes, living with my mother, I mistakenly gave this dude the house number instead of my cell number. The next thing you know, he was calling and smooth talking my mother when I was not at home. This did upset me.

As time progressed, I found out about this as well as more things about him. He's a Mack that love to get drunk and have his way at things. This was an automatic friendship ender. I tried talking with both him and my mother, but nothing changed.

I came to the conclusion that I made a mistake, and that I cannot change other people minds about relationships. I have to deal with it, but that does not mean that I cannot change myself.

Low to High

2009-09-07T17:13:00.002-05:00

A mental doctor interviewed a patient who felt bad about his life. The doctor told the patient to think really hard answer two questions. The first question was:

What in your life has caused you to feel this low?

Answer:
* Fear.
* Laziness.
* Bad Health.
* Lack of Faith

note- The real answer was himself.

Second question:

If you could, what would you do to keep these things from getting in your way?

Answer:
Fear- Understand there is nothing to fear known or unknown. Don't fear people; they are just as you are. Take small steps each each day to conquer your fears, and expand on your on your steps.

Laziness- Get off your butt and get out daily. Educate yourself on things you don't know or don't understand. Do a verb.

Bad Health- Exercise often. Eat right. Get enough sleep at night.

Lack of Faith- Improve yourself in religion. Understand that even a little faith moves mountains. Pray everyday.

Are you feeling down?
What in your life has caused you to feel this low?
If you could, what would you do to keep these things from getting in your way?

Be Royal

2009-08-30T23:36:00.002-05:00

A Mack needs to has royalty on his or her mind. What do I mean by this? Male Macks need to think of themselves being royalty (a prince or king), and it the other way around with female Macks.

You should be living in a world where you are royalty when dealing with the opposite sex. Don't be scared to talk, and don't be ran over. If you feel disrespected, put that other person in check.

You are the king, prince, queen, or prinecess of your domain. Act it. Think it. Live it.

Don't Let Other Macks Mack Your Mother

2009-08-03T13:37:00.002-05:00

Don't let other macks mack your mother.

Me and you; I thought that we were friends. Me and you; I thought that we were kin. Me and you; I thought that you was my brother, until you turned around. Then you met my mother. You were so handicap like you could not find another. Friends to the end; this friendship can't go no further.

All she does is talk about you 24/7. When she found you, she thought she was in heaven. I don't know your tactics, but you sure is selling. You got more stars than a wanted felon. I'm playing this song, telling you that I'm not OK with you. Stay out my space; you don't know what you will make me do.

Michael Jackson

2009-06-28T22:19:00.001-05:00

R.I.P. Michael Jackson. My sympathy goes out to the Jackson family.

How to be a Wedding Crasher

2009-04-24T20:03:00.002-05:00

So you want to crash weddings to pick up women? Here are my tips and rules.

1. Make sure you know something about the people getting married before the wedding.

2. Do not act spaced out at the wedding.

3. Have a solid story if asked how you know the person getting married.

4. Do not try to pick up every woman you see.

5. Try to focus on one target.

6. Be friendly.

7. Be relaxed.

8. Do not dance crazy at the reception.

9. Do not mess up or you will get in trouble.

10. Have fun.

Moving Foward After The First Date

2009-04-01T12:03:00.002-05:00

Me and my fellow friend/PUA, Monsieur Sunset was having a discussion about how to keep a mate after the first date. In order to do so there has to be a mutual attraction between you and your mate.

The two of you should agree on another date and go on from there. When you are with your mate you must also be a good listener. Pay attention to body language as well as words.

If there is no mutual attraction don't be afraid to let go. Also do not stalk or chase your mate. It will only make you look like a simp. It will be their loss not yours. Move on.

If the second date goes well, meet the family. Have dinner with them. See where your mate get their look and smile from. You get in with the family, your relationship should grow stronger.

Dance Club Set

2009-03-30T10:25:00.002-05:00

Setting: a dance club with slow song playing in the background. You walked up to a hb who is not dancing.

You: Hey.
HB: Hi.
You: Do you like this song that's playing?
HB: It's alright
You: I feel the same way about it. I'm going to tell the DJ to put something else on.
HB: Ok
You: By the way... My name is Blah. What's yours?
HB: Blah
You: Nice to meet you Blah. I'll be right back.
*Go to the DJ and tell the DJ that girl would like to request something faster.
* Go back to the hb.
If she's still there she passed :-)
If she has left she failed :-(
Dance. Have fun. Get the number.

Store Set

2009-03-16T12:21:00.002-05:00

The Setting: A Store

You setup next to the HB and continue browsing around.

You: Hey, you see and good bargains?
HB: No
You: This store sure do know how to take people money don't it?
HB: Yeah
You: By the way, my name is Blah. What's yours?
HB: It's Blah
You: Well it's nice to meet you Blah. I'm about to checkout and leave this store soon before it takes all of my money. Let's exchange numbers.

Make Her Laugh

2009-03-13T12:39:00.002-05:00

You want to make a woman laugh. Where do your humor come from? From the past, present, or future. What material can you joke about? Yourself, other people in the room, or an incident. Let me explain.

The Past: Tell a funny story that has happened to you in the past.
The Present: Observe things around you and joke about it.
The Future: Answer the question "What would you do?" in a wacky way.

Yourself: What are some funny things to know about you?
Other People: What are the people doing? How are they doing it?
Incident: Tell about a funny incident.

Church Set

2009-02-28T16:20:00.003-06:00

The Setting: Church

After church you see a HB. You approach.

You: Hey.
HB: Hi.
You: You have a nice singing voice.
HB: Blah Blah
You: Or was that someone else?
HB: Blah Blah
You: My name is "your name" What's yours?
HB: Blah
You: Nice to meet you Blah, and see that you are serving The Lord.
You: So what do you during the the week?
HB: I Blah Blah.
You: Well I'm going to be at "the place you want to set up the date" this "weekday" around "time", and I'll like for you to join me.
HB: I'll see.
You: Ok. What's a number I can reach you at if something comes up?
HB: 555-1245
You: Ok. I'll see you then.

Posting Again

2009-02-26T23:06:00.002-06:00

I took a little break from posting, but I will be posting again. I'm going to start off with working different sets. I will be using "HB" for hot babe for short in my posts.
Be looking out for my posts and maybe you can get that HB.

Beliefs of a Mack

2009-01-27T21:12:00.002-06:00

A Macks beliefs about:

Existence- We are here to improve ourselves, love each other, and die when it is time to.
Knowledge- Our knowledge comes from past experiences or from others we look up to.
Truth- Truth can hurt you as well as it can set you free.
Beauty- True beauty comes from within.
Justice- Everyone does not get justice.
Validity- Validity comes from the mind and the actions you take to use it.
Mind- You are what you think you are. You do what you think you can do.
Language- Your language comes from what you heard when you were young.

Mackin and Chess

2009-01-26T12:55:00.002-06:00

You can relate mackin to a game of chess. You have to make the correct moves, and every piece is delicate. Let me explain.

You have:
Pawns = pick-up lines/ice breakers
Knights = game
Rooks = the right questions to ask
Bishops = love and affection
Queen = knowledge of how to treat a woman
King = knowledge of how to be a man

From the bottom to the top, your king piece is your most delicate one. If you lose that you have messed up badly. Play your pieces wisely and you will win.

Success With Women

2009-01-14T11:09:00.002-06:00

I was just reading another blog. When you have a chance, go check it out. beingandquirckiness.blogspot.com

The post that hit me the most was about talent, and it gave me an idea to do this post about success with women. Men want to have success with mackin women, but most find themselves not successful. Why? Because they sit on the sidelines. To be successful with women you got to have two things.
1. Desire
2. Action

Yes, those are the two main things that you must have. You must have a desire to talk to women and attract them, and you must take action to do so. If you never move, you'll never go anywhere.

Yes, you are going to get dissed, but if you learn from your mistakes and keep the mackin on, you'll eventually be successful.

Keep mackin ;-)

Jealously Is A Mack Killer

2009-01-14T00:26:00.002-06:00

Jealously has been around for years, since Cain and Abel. Just because you can't have what someone else has. Instead of being jealous about something, brush it out. If you see another guy going out with a woman you like, go the other way, and don't sweat it. Be cool. There are plenty of fish in the pond for you to catch.

Keep Mackin.

How Women Attract Men

2009-01-05T08:58:00.002-06:00

I came across this article this weekend written for women about how to pick up men. It made me laugh. Here is the article and my rebuttal of it.

How to Pick Up Men

Who says you have to wait, batting your eyelashes and hoping that handsome guy will introduce himself? Take life by the horns and pick that man up!

Steps

Pick a good spot. The good old bar scene isn't for everybody! Be creative, and be shameless.
Flirt from a distance. Make eye contact, smile, and look approachable.
Start a conversation.
Close the deal. Right before you leave, give him your contact info, and walk away.

How to Pick Up Men Rebuttal

1. Guys, we have to be on our P and Q everywhere we go. You never know when a woman will have her eyes on you.
2. If you see a approachable woman smiling and making eye contact with you, here is your sign.
3. If she does not start a conversation, then you start one.
4. If she give you her contact info and walks away, don't follow her but do give her a phone call. Probably later on more than a few few hours would be a good time to call. You don't want to seem desperate and anxious.

Happy Mackin :-)

No Cupcakes In 2009

2009-01-02T10:56:00.002-06:00

It's finally a new year. Last year was the year of the cupcake. If you were cupcaking in 2008, please do not do it this year. If you were not cupcaking, then do not start it this year. Cupcaking does not work!!!

What do I mean about the term "cupcaking"? Cupcake - A man who gives a woman gifts or money in hopes of getting closer with her.

You know what women say to themselves when men cupcake them? "This guy is really being nice to me. I hope he knows I'm not going to let him get my cookie just like that."

When they thank you or give you a hug after your kind deed, you get the big head. Later you find out you were tricked. Fellas, please don't let this happen to you. Stop the cupcaking.

If possible, have women cupcake you. Yes it is true, "Nice guys finish last." I'm not saying to be totally mean, but what I am saying is to act like a prince (easier to do) or a king (harder to do) if possible around women. If they don't like you, then it's their loss. If they like you, they will come to you.

Good luck Mackin.

Happy New Year

2008-12-31T19:54:00.001-06:00

I want to wish everyone a happy new year. May your macking skills improve in 2009.

About Me

2008-12-30T17:23:00.002-06:00

So you want to know a little about my life? How did I become a Mackin Artist?

It started back in my early school years. One day at school I was talking mess about a group of girls. They got word of what I said, and they kicked my ass. Yeah, I was a wuss. Later years, when I made it to high school, I was not really a ladies man my freshman through junior years. But my senior year I decided to make a change. I started watching videos and reading books about self-improvement. I started to work on myself, but that did not really help me in my love life. Sure I was talking with females, but it was only as a friend. One girl felt sorry for me and pretended to be my girlfriend. I said in my head, "Women suck." But there was no way in the world I was going to turn gay. There were gay guys at my school, but there was no way in hell that I was going to be one. Finally, my senior prom came up, and I found a date. How? I just asked her to go to the prom with me, and she accepted. After the prom was shit. We did not hit the town. We just went back to our houses. College years, I decided to make a bigger change. I studied videos, books, and the internet on the art of picking-up women. Later I found the path to other artists, and I took in their advice. Are things working for me? Yeah (sometimes I fail). Am I stilling studying material from my resources? Yeah. Am I learning more and more about women everyday? Hell yeah.

Funny (misconception)

2008-12-24T16:44:00.000-06:00

Almost End of Year

2008-12-23T18:09:00.002-06:00

It's almost the end of the year, so I'm inviting you to comment. Tell me what topics you would like for me to post about, or any of your mackin advice.

This is an open post. Be my guest.

Top 10 Gifts for Macks

2008-12-23T16:56:00.003-06:00

Here is my top 10 list for great gifts for Macks (no certain order):

1. Leather Jackets
2. Seduction Books/Videos
3. Ties
4. Cuff Links
5. Cash
6. A Vacation
7. Love
8. A Massage
9. Soundtracks
10. Pie ;-)

Closed vs. Open

2008-12-13T15:35:00.003-06:00

Why are some women closed with men rather than open? Here are the reasons:

1. They have been hurt in the past.

2. They are either scared, shy, or nervous.

3. They think they are Ms. All-That. (every guy has tried to hit on her)

You got to show them that you are not out to hurt them. Make them feel comfort around you, but for the Ms. All-That women, no matter how hard it is, you have to pretend that you are not interested in them at first. Make the Ms. All-That women work for your IOI (indicator of interest).

If He Can You Can Too

2008-12-05T22:07:00.002-06:00

Go and check this out:
http://www.nypost.com/photos/galleries/news/regionalnews/pp_20081202_how_to_talk_to_girls/photo01.htm

This is only a 9 year old, and he's picking-up women already. If he can do this you should be able to too. This kid should motivate you.

How to handle rejection

2008-12-01T20:08:00.002-06:00

Out in the field you are going to eventually face rejection. You are going to mess-up sometimes, or some woman is not going to feel you. How do you handle rejection?

Imagine yourself as a pet in a pet store. You are going to have some people who would like to take you home and some that would not. But you still have to be what you are, even if you get rejected.

If women reject you it's not always your fault. It could be many reasons (for ex. she could be a lesbian). You have to just think for a moment about why you could have been rejected, and continue being yourself. Someone will come along who vibes with you.

Be tough. Get some tough skin. Rejection. It happens to the best of us.

Top 3 Things A Mack Should Do In His Free-time

2008-11-30T19:45:00.002-06:00

A mack will not be macking all the time. Sometimes he will be alone. What should he be doing during this free-time? Here are the top 3 things:

1. Reading. When you read you learn more, and when you learn more you know more.

2. Improving his spiritual life. No matter what religious background you have, you will feel more confident.

3. Improving his health. How can a guy with bad health keep a woman? It is almost impossible. She will not want to pay your medical bill or for your funeral service.

Working With Wings

2008-11-25T18:37:00.002-06:00

When with wings(assistants), no matter whether they are male or female, here are some things to help you out when working with them:

1. Always prepare your wing before you go out hunting ( say to you wing "Hey. We're going here and I want you to help me out, and I want you to do this when I do this.")

2. Make sure they want down you in the public. That goes back to step 1.

3. Have them to distract all cock-blockers while you talk game.

4. If you do get get the prey don't forget to reward your wing for helping you out.

Location, Location, Location

2008-11-23T19:54:00.002-06:00

Q: Where can I find women to date?

A: Are you kidding me? You can find them anywhere. Your neighborhood, the store, the mall, college, church, work, the park, nightclubs , and etc. You just have to open your eyes.

Task: Here is a little task for you. The next time you are out, take a count of all of the attractive women you see, and keep a list of where you saw them.

From Head to Toe

2008-11-22T15:08:00.002-06:00

This is the most important post you should read. This will not only help in attracting women, but it will help you when you go out into the world on job interviews, church, and anywhere where you will be viewed.

Q: How can I improve my appearance?

A: Let's start with your hair. Either brush it, comb it, or get it cut.
Face: Make sure you wash it everyday, and put moisturizer cream on it, if you have dry skin. Make sure you keep a clean or a manageable shave.
Body: Take baths or showers everyday. Keep on deodorant and good smelling cologne but not too much (you don't want to run people away).
Nails: Keep your fingernails and toenails cut, and if possible apply clear nail polish to them.
Clothes: Make sure you keep at the least 5 button-down casual shirts, 2 dress shirts, 3 casual pants, 2 pairs of jeans, a few ties and belts, a pair of dress shoes, a pair of tennis shoes, 2-3 dress suits, a winter coat, a leather jacket, and a rolex watch.

If you need assistance finding cologne, clothes or whatever, don't be afraid to ask for help from females, since they are the ones you want to attract.

Post #1

2008-11-18T17:07:00.001-06:00

Well, I kept silent long enough. It is time for me to put my two cents in about the mackin world.

I will like to thank King Flex, Mystery, Style, D-Money, and the rest of the women magnets for inspiring me to talk freely to women.

I have been struggling picking up women and still is a little, but everyday makes me stronger, wiser, and better.

Just like I got advice and inspiration, I hope this blog helps the AFC, nerd, and shy guy that wants to be next in line talking to women.

Feel free to comment, ask questions, and give your advice. I will respond if possible.

Thank you.