A mental doctor interviewed a patient who felt bad about his life. The doctor told the patient to think really hard answer two questions. The first question was:
What in your life has caused you to feel this low?
Answer:
* Fear.
* Laziness.
* Bad Health.
* Lack of Faith
note- The real answer was himself.
Second question:
If you could, what would you do to keep these things from getting in your way?
Answer:
Fear- Understand there is nothing to fear known or unknown. Don't fear people; they are just as you are. Take small steps each each day to conquer your fears, and expand on your on your steps.
Laziness- Get off your butt and get out daily. Educate yourself on things you don't know or don't understand. Do a verb.
Bad Health- Exercise often. Eat right. Get enough sleep at night.
Lack of Faith- Improve yourself in religion. Understand that even a little faith moves mountains. Pray everyday.
Are you feeling down?
What in your life has caused you to feel this low?
If you could, what would you do to keep these things from getting in your way?
Monday, September 7, 2009
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Be Royal
A Mack needs to has royalty on his or her mind. What do I mean by this? Male Macks need to think of themselves being royalty (a prince or king), and it the other way around with female Macks.
You should be living in a world where you are royalty when dealing with the opposite sex. Don't be scared to talk, and don't be ran over. If you feel disrespected, put that other person in check.
You are the king, prince, queen, or prinecess of your domain. Act it. Think it. Live it.
You should be living in a world where you are royalty when dealing with the opposite sex. Don't be scared to talk, and don't be ran over. If you feel disrespected, put that other person in check.
You are the king, prince, queen, or prinecess of your domain. Act it. Think it. Live it.
Monday, August 3, 2009
Don't Let Other Macks Mack Your Mother
Don't let other macks mack your mother.
Me and you; I thought that we were friends. Me and you; I thought that we were kin. Me and you; I thought that you was my brother, until you turned around. Then you met my mother. You were so handicap like you could not find another. Friends to the end; this friendship can't go no further.
All she does is talk about you 24/7. When she found you, she thought she was in heaven. I don't know your tactics, but you sure is selling. You got more stars than a wanted felon. I'm playing this song, telling you that I'm not OK with you. Stay out my space; you don't know what you will make me do.
Me and you; I thought that we were friends. Me and you; I thought that we were kin. Me and you; I thought that you was my brother, until you turned around. Then you met my mother. You were so handicap like you could not find another. Friends to the end; this friendship can't go no further.
All she does is talk about you 24/7. When she found you, she thought she was in heaven. I don't know your tactics, but you sure is selling. You got more stars than a wanted felon. I'm playing this song, telling you that I'm not OK with you. Stay out my space; you don't know what you will make me do.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Friday, April 24, 2009
How to be a Wedding Crasher
So you want to crash weddings to pick up women? Here are my tips and rules.
1. Make sure you know something about the people getting married before the wedding.
2. Do not act spaced out at the wedding.
3. Have a solid story if asked how you know the person getting married.
4. Do not try to pick up every woman you see.
5. Try to focus on one target.
6. Be friendly.
7. Be relaxed.
8. Do not dance crazy at the reception.
9. Do not mess up or you will get in trouble.
10. Have fun.
1. Make sure you know something about the people getting married before the wedding.
2. Do not act spaced out at the wedding.
3. Have a solid story if asked how you know the person getting married.
4. Do not try to pick up every woman you see.
5. Try to focus on one target.
6. Be friendly.
7. Be relaxed.
8. Do not dance crazy at the reception.
9. Do not mess up or you will get in trouble.
10. Have fun.
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Moving Foward After The First Date
Me and my fellow friend/PUA, Monsieur Sunset was having a discussion about how to keep a mate after the first date. In order to do so there has to be a mutual attraction between you and your mate.
The two of you should agree on another date and go on from there. When you are with your mate you must also be a good listener. Pay attention to body language as well as words.
If there is no mutual attraction don't be afraid to let go. Also do not stalk or chase your mate. It will only make you look like a simp. It will be their loss not yours. Move on.
If the second date goes well, meet the family. Have dinner with them. See where your mate get their look and smile from. You get in with the family, your relationship should grow stronger.
The two of you should agree on another date and go on from there. When you are with your mate you must also be a good listener. Pay attention to body language as well as words.
If there is no mutual attraction don't be afraid to let go. Also do not stalk or chase your mate. It will only make you look like a simp. It will be their loss not yours. Move on.
If the second date goes well, meet the family. Have dinner with them. See where your mate get their look and smile from. You get in with the family, your relationship should grow stronger.
Monday, March 30, 2009
Dance Club Set
Setting: a dance club with slow song playing in the background. You walked up to a hb who is not dancing.
You: Hey.
HB: Hi.
You: Do you like this song that's playing?
HB: It's alright
You: I feel the same way about it. I'm going to tell the DJ to put something else on.
HB: Ok
You: By the way... My name is Blah. What's yours?
HB: Blah
You: Nice to meet you Blah. I'll be right back.
*Go to the DJ and tell the DJ that girl would like to request something faster.
* Go back to the hb.
If she's still there she passed :-)
If she has left she failed :-(
Dance. Have fun. Get the number.
You: Hey.
HB: Hi.
You: Do you like this song that's playing?
HB: It's alright
You: I feel the same way about it. I'm going to tell the DJ to put something else on.
HB: Ok
You: By the way... My name is Blah. What's yours?
HB: Blah
You: Nice to meet you Blah. I'll be right back.
*Go to the DJ and tell the DJ that girl would like to request something faster.
* Go back to the hb.
If she's still there she passed :-)
If she has left she failed :-(
Dance. Have fun. Get the number.
Monday, March 16, 2009
Store Set
The Setting: A Store
You setup next to the HB and continue browsing around.
You: Hey, you see and good bargains?
HB: No
You: This store sure do know how to take people money don't it?
HB: Yeah
You: By the way, my name is Blah. What's yours?
HB: It's Blah
You: Well it's nice to meet you Blah. I'm about to checkout and leave this store soon before it takes all of my money. Let's exchange numbers.
You setup next to the HB and continue browsing around.
You: Hey, you see and good bargains?
HB: No
You: This store sure do know how to take people money don't it?
HB: Yeah
You: By the way, my name is Blah. What's yours?
HB: It's Blah
You: Well it's nice to meet you Blah. I'm about to checkout and leave this store soon before it takes all of my money. Let's exchange numbers.
Friday, March 13, 2009
Make Her Laugh
You want to make a woman laugh. Where do your humor come from? From the past, present, or future. What material can you joke about? Yourself, other people in the room, or an incident. Let me explain.
The Past: Tell a funny story that has happened to you in the past.
The Present: Observe things around you and joke about it.
The Future: Answer the question "What would you do?" in a wacky way.
Yourself: What are some funny things to know about you?
Other People: What are the people doing? How are they doing it?
Incident: Tell about a funny incident.
The Past: Tell a funny story that has happened to you in the past.
The Present: Observe things around you and joke about it.
The Future: Answer the question "What would you do?" in a wacky way.
Yourself: What are some funny things to know about you?
Other People: What are the people doing? How are they doing it?
Incident: Tell about a funny incident.
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Church Set
The Setting: Church
After church you see a HB. You approach.
You: Hey.
HB: Hi.
You: You have a nice singing voice.
HB: Blah Blah
You: Or was that someone else?
HB: Blah Blah
You: My name is "your name" What's yours?
HB: Blah
You: Nice to meet you Blah, and see that you are serving The Lord.
You: So what do you during the the week?
HB: I Blah Blah.
You: Well I'm going to be at "the place you want to set up the date" this "weekday" around "time", and I'll like for you to join me.
HB: I'll see.
You: Ok. What's a number I can reach you at if something comes up?
HB: 555-1245
You: Ok. I'll see you then.
After church you see a HB. You approach.
You: Hey.
HB: Hi.
You: You have a nice singing voice.
HB: Blah Blah
You: Or was that someone else?
HB: Blah Blah
You: My name is "your name" What's yours?
HB: Blah
You: Nice to meet you Blah, and see that you are serving The Lord.
You: So what do you during the the week?
HB: I Blah Blah.
You: Well I'm going to be at "the place you want to set up the date" this "weekday" around "time", and I'll like for you to join me.
HB: I'll see.
You: Ok. What's a number I can reach you at if something comes up?
HB: 555-1245
You: Ok. I'll see you then.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Posting Again
I took a little break from posting, but I will be posting again. I'm going to start off with working different sets. I will be using "HB" for hot babe for short in my posts.
Be looking out for my posts and maybe you can get that HB.
Be looking out for my posts and maybe you can get that HB.
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Beliefs of a Mack
A Macks beliefs about:
Existence- We are here to improve ourselves, love each other, and die when it is time to.
Knowledge- Our knowledge comes from past experiences or from others we look up to.
Truth- Truth can hurt you as well as it can set you free.
Beauty- True beauty comes from within.
Justice- Everyone does not get justice.
Validity- Validity comes from the mind and the actions you take to use it.
Mind- You are what you think you are. You do what you think you can do.
Language- Your language comes from what you heard when you were young.
Existence- We are here to improve ourselves, love each other, and die when it is time to.
Knowledge- Our knowledge comes from past experiences or from others we look up to.
Truth- Truth can hurt you as well as it can set you free.
Beauty- True beauty comes from within.
Justice- Everyone does not get justice.
Validity- Validity comes from the mind and the actions you take to use it.
Mind- You are what you think you are. You do what you think you can do.
Language- Your language comes from what you heard when you were young.
Monday, January 26, 2009
Mackin and Chess
You can relate mackin to a game of chess. You have to make the correct moves, and every piece is delicate. Let me explain.
You have:
Pawns = pick-up lines/ice breakers
Knights = game
Rooks = the right questions to ask
Bishops = love and affection
Queen = knowledge of how to treat a woman
King = knowledge of how to be a man
From the bottom to the top, your king piece is your most delicate one. If you lose that you have messed up badly. Play your pieces wisely and you will win.
You have:
Pawns = pick-up lines/ice breakers
Knights = game
Rooks = the right questions to ask
Bishops = love and affection
Queen = knowledge of how to treat a woman
King = knowledge of how to be a man
From the bottom to the top, your king piece is your most delicate one. If you lose that you have messed up badly. Play your pieces wisely and you will win.
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Success With Women
I was just reading another blog. When you have a chance, go check it out. beingandquirckiness.blogspot.com
The post that hit me the most was about talent, and it gave me an idea to do this post about success with women. Men want to have success with mackin women, but most find themselves not successful. Why? Because they sit on the sidelines. To be successful with women you got to have two things.
1. Desire
2. Action
Yes, those are the two main things that you must have. You must have a desire to talk to women and attract them, and you must take action to do so. If you never move, you'll never go anywhere.
Yes, you are going to get dissed, but if you learn from your mistakes and keep the mackin on, you'll eventually be successful.
Keep mackin ;-)
The post that hit me the most was about talent, and it gave me an idea to do this post about success with women. Men want to have success with mackin women, but most find themselves not successful. Why? Because they sit on the sidelines. To be successful with women you got to have two things.
1. Desire
2. Action
Yes, those are the two main things that you must have. You must have a desire to talk to women and attract them, and you must take action to do so. If you never move, you'll never go anywhere.
Yes, you are going to get dissed, but if you learn from your mistakes and keep the mackin on, you'll eventually be successful.
Keep mackin ;-)
Jealously Is A Mack Killer
Jealously has been around for years, since Cain and Abel. Just because you can't have what someone else has. Instead of being jealous about something, brush it out. If you see another guy going out with a woman you like, go the other way, and don't sweat it. Be cool. There are plenty of fish in the pond for you to catch.
Keep Mackin.
Keep Mackin.
Monday, January 5, 2009
How Women Attract Men
I came across this article this weekend written for women about how to pick up men. It made me laugh. Here is the article and my rebuttal of it.
How to Pick Up Men Rebuttal
1. Guys, we have to be on our P and Q everywhere we go. You never know when a woman will have her eyes on you.
2. If you see a approachable woman smiling and making eye contact with you, here is your sign.
3. If she does not start a conversation, then you start one.
4. If she give you her contact info and walks away, don't follow her but do give her a phone call. Probably later on more than a few few hours would be a good time to call. You don't want to seem desperate and anxious.
Happy Mackin :-)
How to Pick Up Men
Who says you have to wait, batting your eyelashes and hoping that handsome guy will introduce himself? Take life by the horns and pick that man up!
Steps
- Pick a good spot. The good old bar scene isn't for everybody! Be creative, and be shameless.
- Flirt from a distance. Make eye contact, smile, and look approachable.
- Start a conversation.
- Close the deal. Right before you leave, give him your contact info, and walk away.
How to Pick Up Men Rebuttal
1. Guys, we have to be on our P and Q everywhere we go. You never know when a woman will have her eyes on you.2. If you see a approachable woman smiling and making eye contact with you, here is your sign.
3. If she does not start a conversation, then you start one.
4. If she give you her contact info and walks away, don't follow her but do give her a phone call. Probably later on more than a few few hours would be a good time to call. You don't want to seem desperate and anxious.
Happy Mackin :-)
Friday, January 2, 2009
No Cupcakes In 2009
It's finally a new year. Last year was the year of the cupcake. If you were cupcaking in 2008, please do not do it this year. If you were not cupcaking, then do not start it this year. Cupcaking does not work!!!
What do I mean about the term "cupcaking"? Cupcake - A man who gives a woman gifts or money in hopes of getting closer with her.
You know what women say to themselves when men cupcake them? "This guy is really being nice to me. I hope he knows I'm not going to let him get my cookie just like that."
When they thank you or give you a hug after your kind deed, you get the big head. Later you find out you were tricked. Fellas, please don't let this happen to you. Stop the cupcaking.
If possible, have women cupcake you. Yes it is true, "Nice guys finish last." I'm not saying to be totally mean, but what I am saying is to act like a prince (easier to do) or a king (harder to do) if possible around women. If they don't like you, then it's their loss. If they like you, they will come to you.
Good luck Mackin.
What do I mean about the term "cupcaking"? Cupcake - A man who gives a woman gifts or money in hopes of getting closer with her.
You know what women say to themselves when men cupcake them? "This guy is really being nice to me. I hope he knows I'm not going to let him get my cookie just like that."
When they thank you or give you a hug after your kind deed, you get the big head. Later you find out you were tricked. Fellas, please don't let this happen to you. Stop the cupcaking.
If possible, have women cupcake you. Yes it is true, "Nice guys finish last." I'm not saying to be totally mean, but what I am saying is to act like a prince (easier to do) or a king (harder to do) if possible around women. If they don't like you, then it's their loss. If they like you, they will come to you.
Good luck Mackin.
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